The One With Ross's Wedding, part 1 - S4-E23
Visible crew/equipment: After Ross and Monica talk about Emily's dream of the perfect wedding and perfect guy (and Monica's pillowcase), when it cuts to Phoebe and Rachel at the apartment we can see a crew member (wearing a blue shirt) at the left side of the screen, before Phoebe mentions that she thought of a good flaw. (DVD).
The One With Ross's Wedding, part 1 - S4-E23
Visible crew/equipment: When Joey, wearing the Union Jack hat, walks into the hotel room while Chandler's sitting on the bed, on the widescreen version we can see the end of the set wall at the right side of the screen. On the DVD, just as Joey walks across the room studio lighting can be seen at the top left side of the screen.
The One With Ross's Wedding, part 1 - S4-E23
Visible crew/equipment: When Rachel opens the door to the apartment while she's holding flowers and sees Phoebe trying to get up from the couch (before the wedgie comment), the open edge of the set wall can be seen at the top left corner of the screen.
Answer: Usually by the seventh night of Hanukkah you don't know what to get the other person, and you will probably resort to getting the other person something insignificant. Chandler is basically saying that the pen is a stupid gift.