The One Where Ross And Rachel Take A Break - S3-E15
Visible crew/equipment: When Ross is on the phone to Rachel, near the start, just as he walks into the living area, a stage light is visible above him (only visible in fullscreen version). (00:06:10)
Answer: The statements that she's contradicting (that it is common, it happens to every guy, and it's not a big deal), are the things that a woman commonly says to a man who is suffering from erectile difficulty, typically to assuage his bruised ego. However, most men do not believe that these statements are true, as evidenced by Chandler's outburst. He's so caught up in the proof that women are lying about it that he gives himself away.
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