The One With The Tea Leaves - S8-E17
Visible crew/equipment: After Monica and Chandler leave the apartment so Joey and Rachel can be alone, Rachel tells Joey that it's nothing and he tells her he's going to take-off, then in the next wideshot the camera can be seen at the left side of the screen. (00:08:30)
The One In Massapequa - S8-E18
Visible crew/equipment: After the anniversary party, when Rachel and Ross are back at the apartment and Ross tells her that it was the easiest four hundred bucks he ever made, Rachel gets up and just as she walks around the couch we can see the reflection of the cameraman/crew member in the mirror on the wall, at the right side of the screen.
The One With The Baby Shower - S8-E20
Visible crew/equipment: Monica chases after Rachel's Mom to apologise and she falls over and you can clearly see the safety mat move when Monica falls on to it - it's blue and just down the first step. (00:22:00)
The One With The Cooking Class - S8-E21
Visible crew/equipment: In The One With The Cooking Class, just after Ross gets back from his date, a boom mike is hovering over Rachel's head. (00:17:25)
The One With The Cooking Class - S8-E21
Visible crew/equipment: When Joey and Monica are leaving the cooking class, the teacher asks about the difference between hollandaise and béarnaise sauce, and in the next shot of Monica and Joey we can see the shadow of the moving boom mic at the top left side of the screen.
The One Where Rachel is Late - S8-E22
Visible crew/equipment: After Rachel has told Ross it's 100° outside and she starts walking towards the door, a camera is visible to the far right (Widescreen version only). (00:09:30)
The One Where Rachel Has a Baby, part 1 - S8-E23
Visible crew/equipment: Right after Rachel says, "Do you know that feeling when you're trying to blow a Saint Bernard out your ass?" the camera cuts to a view of Monica and Chandler. Behind Monica and Chandler, part of the set is visible, along with a man on crutches.
The One Where Rachel Has a Baby, part 2 - S8-E24
Visible crew/equipment: After Rachel asks Joey to get the other box of tissues under Ross' coat, when Joey drops the ring box then picks it up and opens it we can see the end of the hospital set floor and wall, behind the chair.
The One Where Rachel Has a Baby, part 2 - S8-E24
Visible crew/equipment: In the very last shot of the episode, as Ross is walking down the hall, stage lights are visible at the end of the hallway.
Answer: The statements that she's contradicting (that it is common, it happens to every guy, and it's not a big deal), are the things that a woman commonly says to a man who is suffering from erectile difficulty, typically to assuage his bruised ego. However, most men do not believe that these statements are true, as evidenced by Chandler's outburst. He's so caught up in the proof that women are lying about it that he gives himself away.
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