The One With The Cake - S10-E4
Visible crew/equipment: When Monica is talking to Chandler about waking Emma up, as she walks over to him, crew lights are visible in the top left corner of the screen. (00:05:35)
The One With The Cake - S10-E4
Visible crew/equipment: After Joey describes Emma's funny Elmo cup to Phoebe, it cuts to Monica and Chandler walking in, and to the right of the door we can see the bulletin board is cut in size partially covering the hole in the wall. Later, when Phoebe and Joey leave after the wind-up toy race not only is this visible again, but through the hole we can see the other hole in Monica and Chandler's wall.
The One With The Cake - S10-E4
Visible crew/equipment: After Rachel announces that Phoebe and Joey will perform something, Phoebe asks Joey if he'll be nervous because he has nothing prepared, and when Joey replies that he does it every day with three cameras pointed at him, it's perfect timing that in the next shot we can see filming equipment at the right side of the screen.
The One With The Cake - S10-E4
Visible crew/equipment: At Emma's birthday party, Joey and Phoebe are discussing the performances they are doing for Emma. The balloons placed behind them reflect the stage and spot lights. This happens throughout the episode in most of the balloons.
Answer: The statements that she's contradicting (that it is common, it happens to every guy, and it's not a big deal), are the things that a woman commonly says to a man who is suffering from erectile difficulty, typically to assuage his bruised ego. However, most men do not believe that these statements are true, as evidenced by Chandler's outburst. He's so caught up in the proof that women are lying about it that he gives himself away.
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