The One With The Cake - S10-E4
Plot hole: Judy says that both her parents died very young. However, we saw her mother's death in "The One Where Nana Dies Twice" and she was quite old. Also, in Season 7, 'TOW Phoebe's cookies', Jack Geller tells Chandler that his father in law still thinks he is a lawyer and says "So if you ever see me giving them legal advice, just nod along," implying that Judy's parents were both still alive.
Answer: The statements that she's contradicting (that it is common, it happens to every guy, and it's not a big deal), are the things that a woman commonly says to a man who is suffering from erectile difficulty, typically to assuage his bruised ego. However, most men do not believe that these statements are true, as evidenced by Chandler's outburst. He's so caught up in the proof that women are lying about it that he gives himself away.
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