The One With The Ballroom Dancing - S4-E4
Visible crew/equipment: When Phoebe and Rick are sat on the massage table, keep an eye behind Phoebe's head when the camera is on her, particularly after Rick says, "I can always find another masseuse." You can see the shadow of the boom mic moving.
Answer: Usually by the seventh night of Hanukkah you don't know what to get the other person, and you will probably resort to getting the other person something insignificant. Chandler is basically saying that the pen is a stupid gift.