The One Where the Monkey Gets Away - S1-E19
Visible crew/equipment: When everyone walks in while Ross and Rachel are talking, just as Joey says that he doesn't need violence to enjoy a movie, in the small mirror behind Joey we can see the reflection of equipment moving, presumably a reflector screen.
Answer: The statements that she's contradicting (that it is common, it happens to every guy, and it's not a big deal), are the things that a woman commonly says to a man who is suffering from erectile difficulty, typically to assuage his bruised ego. However, most men do not believe that these statements are true, as evidenced by Chandler's outburst. He's so caught up in the proof that women are lying about it that he gives himself away.
Rooster of Doom