Continuity mistake: After seeing Skipper during dinner, Carrie says "you broke up with him" and Miranda tilts her glass to the right. From the opposite angle it's straight.
Continuity mistake: While talking to Stanford at the bar, Carrie's right arm is bent over the counter, but half a second later it's raised and holding a straw.

Continuity mistake: Stanford's shirt collar is wrinkled and pointing out or ironed and tucked under the jersey, depending on the soht.
Continuity mistake: Stanford takes a cocktail to his lips when Jarred shows up. Then suddenly Stanford's glass disappears in the angle shot from the side.
Continuity mistake: Jarred shows up at the bar and puts his left arm akimbo. A shot later it's lowered.
Continuity mistake: Stanford is given a drink and raises his glass towards his mouth. A shot later it's at chest level. (00:08:52)

Visible crew/equipment: When Sam is with the realtor woman, the boom mic is reflected on her sunglasses.
Answer: I'm a long-time fan of the show, having re-watched it many times, and I definitely remember slightly different dialogue at the end of that episode than what's on my DVD. I'm afraid I have no idea why this change might have been made or any other info, but you're not insane.
Purple_Girl